For many, the first year of university is a time for sexual exploration. However, with this comes the responsibility to practice safe sex, understand the concept of consent and to be aware of the many consequences attached to the various sexual activities.
There are various forms of protection available for those engaging in sexual activities. This includes the contraceptive pill, an IUD, contraceptive sponges that contain spermicide. In addition to this, both male and female condoms also provide a large amount of protection during sexual activities. To note that female and male condoms should never be used at the same time as the friction of the two condoms can result in tears in the condoms and ultimately negates the purpose of their use.
It is important to note that pregnancy is not an outcome for everyone engaging in sexual activities. However, engaging in sexual activities does increases your risk of contracting a sexually transmitted infection (STI) and most contraceptives do not protect against STIs.
According to the World Health Organisation (WHO) the most common forms of curable STIs include trichomoniasis, chlamydia, gonorrhoea and syphilis. There are also many viral STIs including HIV, genital herpes and human papillomavirus, which have limited or no treatment options available. STI’s make the use of protection while engaging in sexual activities vital as almost all STI’s are preventable by some form of protection.
However, it is also important to note that using protection is not a 100% guarantee against unwanted pregnancy or STIs and it is important to take extra precautions where possible. Condoms, both male and female, must not be used past their expiration date and, when using lube, be sure that it is compatible with the kind of condom you are using.
If you are engaging in sexual activities on a regular basis or with multiple partners, it is recommended that you go for an STI test. The University of Pretoria’s Student Health Services offers testing for STIs on the Hatfield, Groenkloof, Prinshof, Mamelodi and Onderstepoort campuses. Students can also receive testing and treatment at the Centre for Sexualities, Aids and Gender (CSA&G). The CSA&G also hosts regular seminars on topics related to gender, HIV and sexualities. HIV counselling, ARV treatment referrals and support and HIV support groups are also available.
An important part of engaging in sexual activities is the concept of consent. Consent should be informed, continuous and enthusiastic. Consent is required before any type of sexual activity begins and can be withdrawn at any point during said activity. It is important to remember that people under the influence of any substance, such as drugs or alcohol, or people that are under the age of 18 do not have the ability to consent to sexual activities. Consent is the first and most important thing to obtain before engaging in sexual activities.
However, there are many ways to engage in sexual activities that limit your exposure to STIs and your likelihood of unwanted pregnancies. This can include masturbation, either alone or with your partner, kissing, sexting and using sex toys such as vibrators.
However, it is important to remain hygienic during these practices. According to Insider, cleaning your toys and urinating after penetration to prevent urinary tract infections (UTI’s) are two important hygiene practices. However, during a pandemic it is also important to know your sexual partners COVID-19 status and be aware of the risks associated with having multiple partners as both can increase your chances of contracting COVID-19 if ignored.
First year is the first time away from home for many and with that comes this new need for sexual exploration. Sex is meant to be fun and explorative. So, practice safe sex, fall in love and masturbate (hygienically). However, you should remember to stay protected, get consent and get tested if you are concerned.
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