Beyond Valentine’s Day: Keeping Love Alive in Everyday Moments

by Lisakhanya Ngoma | Mar 2, 2025 | Entertainment

Love does not come with deadlines, and it is certainly not confined to Valentine’s Day. Whether you are single, taken, or navigating the ever-confusing “it’s complicated” zone, love is about more than grand gestures and candlelit dinners. It is about connection, appreciation, and showing up for the people who matter – whether that is a partner, a lifelong friend, or even yourself.

But let us be real – being a student means that budgets are tighter than jeans after an all-you-can-eat buffet. Fortunately, Pretoria offers plenty of affordable, beautiful, and experience-rich places that allow you to celebrate love all year round. Whether you are planning a romantic picnic, a friendship date, or a solo self-care day, here are some of the best spots to create meaningful moments.

Pretoria National Botanical Garden – A Love That Grows

Nature has a way of slowing life down. The Pretoria National Botanical Gardens are the perfect place to reconnect, whether it be with a partner, friends, or yourself. With lush greenery, shaded picnic spots, and scenic trails, it is an ideal setting for heartfelt conversations, quiet reflection, or simply lying on a blanket and pretending you have your life together.

The gardens are ideal as they serve as a reminder that love is not just about saying the right things, but it is also about being present. Pack a picnic basket, take a walk, or sit under a tree and enjoy the stillness. The entrance fee for adults is R50, and students can get access for R30.

 

Afro-Boer Bakery – A Love Like Carbs

Few things in life are as comforting as a warm croissant and a good conversation. Afro-Boer Bakery is a cozy, rustic café that serves delicious coffee and pastries in an inviting, homey atmosphere. Whether you are catching up with a close friend, having a cute breakfast date, or indulging in a solo coffee moment (because self-love is a thing too), this spot delivers on both flavour and vibes.

Love is in the little things: the rich aroma of coffee, the crunch of fresh bread, and the simple joy of being fully present with the people (or pastries) in front of you. Afro-Boer offers a range of items from freshly baked goods to hearty meals. It is celebrated and loved for its cozy atmosphere and artisanal offerings. The blend of traditional and contemporary dishes makes it a favourite among locals.

 

Hazel Food Market – For a Love That Tastes Good

If the way to someone’s heart is truly through their stomach, then the Hazel Food Market is a love story waiting to happen. Open on Saturdays, this lively market is packed with gourmet street food, fresh local produce, and delicious treats. Whether you are sampling artisanal cheeses, sharing a plate of dumplings, or bonding over a messy burger, it is a recipe for a guaranteed good time.

 

The market’s vibrant energy and astounding variety makes a fun date, a group outing, or just treating yourself feel like a celebration. However, it can get quite crowded and parking fills up quickly, so make sure to arrive early.

Entrance is free, and the food prices range from R30 to R100 per item. 

 

Union Buildings’ Gardens – Love with a View

If you are looking for a romantic stroll, a meaningful catch-up with a friend, or just a place to clear your head, the Union Buildings’ Gardens have you covered. These beautifully maintained gardens overlook the Pretoria skyline, and they offer breathtaking views, peaceful spots to sit and chat, and a historical backdrop that makes you feel reflective (even if you are just there for the pictures).

Entrance to the gardens is free. You can take a taxi toward Pretoria CBD, or you can take a 30-minute scenic walk. You can also take an Uber or taxi, but carpooling with that special someone or friends can be fun too.

 

At the end of the day, love is not just about finding “the one”. It is about celebrating all forms of love – romantic, platonic, familial, and self-love. Whether you are planning a post-Valentine’s picnic with some friends, reconnecting with old pals, or simply taking yourself on a much-needed solo date, these places remind us that love is an everyday experience. If all else fails, there is always cake

Lisakhanya Ngoma
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